She says high school
performance has zero value in predicting accomplishment and success
in adult life.
Not only can weak students can become
wonderful wives and mothers and/or rich businesswomen.
That of course, but more -
Weak students have flowered into
successful performers in the academic world!
She asks, what accounts for the dramatic
turnaround? She says, sometimes sheer will and hard work.
Often, taking four college or sem
classes instead of ten a term in high school.
Some need time to mature.
Others need to develop work habits.
College offers promise of a successful
adult career which is motivating.
For some, the change occurs when they
enter high school.
For others, the senior year.
For many, years later.
What to do about those who are
miserable now?
She says, parents ask us to push less, expect
less, but experience says this is not a good idea.
And interpersonal strengths, talent are
not adequate replacements (despite those who extol school performances for that reason).
She says: It is our challenge as mechanchim to
create the environment that is most conducive to children learning,
of realistic but challenging expectations.
In a follow-up article, the author adds
that those who are good students need to know that an entire area of
adult life – family and community – have nothing to do with
academic success!
The 99 on the chemistry quiz won’t
help you to be an understanding, flexible, wise wife or a patient,
creative, and dedicated mother.
Lots of food for thought both for the academically successful high school student and the unsuccessful.
Lots of food for thought both for the academically successful high school student and the unsuccessful.
do you know what issue it was? I'd love to try and track down a copy of the article, if possible. I have a friend who used to be an editor for Horizons. she said if I can give her the issue # she can likely track it down. Thanks!
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