One year ago, I put up a post called "Just Say Yes" :
http://bikores.blogspot.com/2009/12/just-say-yes.html#links
to which this is a follow-up. The prevalent view is that if we keep on giving we will become depleted, even burned out. That seems like common wisdom indeed. But is it true?
In the Artscroll biography of Rabbi Pam he was asked how to avoid burnout in chinuch. Rabbi Pam did not relate to the question. He so enjoyed teaching and derived tremendous satisfaction from it. He regarded each student as a treasure. He taught for decades and said this was the most enjoyable time of his life. With that attitude, how could he grow tired of it?
So too with chesed, said the person I quoted in that other post. If you do it for the right reasons, you gain in strength and don't lose out.
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