tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-836379088405065709.post2421697487904838059..comments2023-09-05T11:57:38.728-04:00Comments on My Perspective: What Life Should BeCritiquerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14788007492647988964noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-836379088405065709.post-46168408325286997152010-08-17T17:04:13.558-04:002010-08-17T17:04:13.558-04:00It is a good thing to enjoy being with someone and...It is a good thing to enjoy being with someone and that is usually a good sign that things are going well but I have seen situations where the person was in it for fun and had no intention of committing to the relationship.rosiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03750230430610565818noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-836379088405065709.post-74153703300606863052010-08-17T14:45:01.266-04:002010-08-17T14:45:01.266-04:00Rosie - By having fun with someone re shidduchim, ...Rosie - By having fun with someone re shidduchim, doesn't that mean enjoying the time spent with them and isn't that a good thing?<br /><br />Chabadniker - re your 2nd comment, halevai but it didn't seem like it though it's certainly a positive spin on itCritiquerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14788007492647988964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-836379088405065709.post-91684898814336121862010-08-17T00:44:27.507-04:002010-08-17T00:44:27.507-04:00something else just occured to me.
The parent wrot...something else just occured to me.<br />The parent wrote<br />"Learning and having FUN!!!"<br />Maybe what he or she meant to say was "my son is learning and actually having FUN"<br />Maybe the "fun" was meant to go on the learning. :)BusyTiredMumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05866679580769412026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-836379088405065709.post-91315776513111500362010-08-17T00:41:14.319-04:002010-08-17T00:41:14.319-04:00Appropriate fun is good and healthy, but in it'...Appropriate fun is good and healthy, but in it's rightful place and time. Learning can be fun too with the right mechanech and with the right attitude.BusyTiredMumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05866679580769412026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-836379088405065709.post-79966817131761539762010-08-16T19:17:31.327-04:002010-08-16T19:17:31.327-04:00What kind of students and children do we produce w...What kind of students and children do we produce when we think that life should be about fun as opposed to Serving G-d?<br /><br />Wait until those kids enter shidduchim. They will be confused having to sort out a fun person from a tachlisdik person. They will judge every possible marriage partner by how much fun that they have with them. <br />Besides from shidduchim there are other parts of life such as; it is more fun to eat ice cream than peas and carrots although from a nutrition standpoint, the latter is healthier than the former.<br />Paying taxes and obeying the speed limit are not fun. Dressing tznius is not always fun. <br />I agree; emphasizing fun can lead someone down the wrong path.rosiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03750230430610565818noreply@blogger.com