tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-836379088405065709.post3576432674368698466..comments2023-09-05T11:57:38.728-04:00Comments on My Perspective: A Painful ConsolationCritiquerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14788007492647988964noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-836379088405065709.post-84791305112408270762021-12-19T21:22:11.569-05:002021-12-19T21:22:11.569-05:00I think you should stop talking to people who are ...I think you should stop talking to people who are in mourningAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15515898021374198227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-836379088405065709.post-50280588820004083612015-08-25T17:35:19.849-04:002015-08-25T17:35:19.849-04:00I can only speak of losing a premature newborn inf...I can only speak of losing a premature newborn infant but while I was grateful to a kind Abishter that he allowed the twin to live and that I had other children, I still felt the loss of that one. The mourner is mourning the loss of that child, regardless of what other children exist. Yes, she is lucky to have others, but her heart is still broken. Sometimes it is better not to focus on what good the person has in life but to acknowledge the grief over the loss that they are experiencing. Eventually they will heal and realize that they can move on and appreciate what they still have.rosiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03750230430610565818noreply@blogger.com